Pocket Fondles - A new take on an ancient tradition

When we developed our pocket fondles, we were aware of the concept of the pocket hug - usually given as a sentimental token of esteem, affection or support, to be kept in the recipient's pocket as a heartfelt memento in the physical absence of the giver. What we were not aware of, and our subsequent research revealed, is the fact that objects of this kind have a long history, dating back centuries, of providing a means of self-soothing. As a focus for meditative pursuit and a way of managing anxiety, the therapeutic effect of rubbing a smooth surface, brings comfort and peace to a troubled mind.

Better known as worry stones, the origins of our pocket fondles can be found in ancient Greece and Rome, in Tibet and among Celtic and Native American peoples - and sometimes, these usually natural objects were endowed with magical properties. However, modern science also validates the idea of sensory tools helping to calm the nervous system. Studies have shown that repetitive tactile activities can help to reduce levels of the body's primary stress hormone, cortisol. And in the post covid era, anxiety is on the rise, especially among the young. The physical action of rubbing such an object can help to disperse nervous energy and promote and enhance mindfulness.

We've selected five special birds to feature in our first Love our Birds pocket fondle series. These birds enjoy beloved, if not, iconic, status, in the hearts and minds of New Zealanders everywhere. The ever popular Tui; the elusive Sacred Kingfisher; the proud Kiwi; the Kokako, grey ghost of the forest and the mystical white heron, or Kotuku. A treasured handmade gift, endowed with the power of inspiration, featuring two beautiful bird images, one on each side, every pocket fondle is a loving tribute to its namesake and is a ready source of calming energy when held and moved in the hand.

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